In life
everybody faces difficult times such as the loss of a loved one, divorce or
break-up, illness, job loss, relocation, economic hardships. As you read these
lines you may identify with one or several of these losses and although you may
feel you won’t be able to overcome the pain and be happy again, you can bounce back after a loss and even thrive on grief.
You can find
strength and hope no matter what you are confronting in life. It may take time
(it is different for each of us) but it is possible. What matters most is to
have faith and believe in your resilience. Yes, you have the ability to recover
after a loss. You just need to look into your inner self to bring up those
resources.
- I won’t be happy again….
- Life is unfair….
- Why has this happened to me...
I have been
so touched by many of my clients who have faced painful situations and thrive
on their grief that I wanted to remind you of your possibilities. In my own
life I have confronted many losses and have been able to bounce back. It has to
do with faith, hope, strength, resilience, and love.
We have
valuable resources in our spirit, mind, and heart. It is up to us if we use
them.
Have a
beautiful day,
Ligia M. Houben, MA, CGC, CPC
Certified
Grief Counselor-Life Transitions Coach
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